A few weeks ago, I wrote about how some of my actions (and words) had been communicating to my kids (and husband) that the church and my work and service for her was more important than they were.
Understand that when you work for a church or ministry, there will always be some unpaid hours that have to be viewed as service. No one goes into church or ministry work to get rich. The Church is the Bride of Christ and we have to serve her selflessly. And, for some leaders, it’s really hard to ‘turn it off.’ For me, my mind is always drifting back to communications and connections. Always.
But my kids felt that. And they weren’t always happy about it.
So I’ve been intentionally investing in them and it’s been awesome. But there’s been that small voice in the back of my head.
How do I stay connected to my peers? How do I stay up-to-date on current trends and technology? What happens when we decide it’s time for mom to go back to work?
And – let’s be honest – even though there’s no “get rich quick scheme” in ministry, there’s college, insurance, and other bills. Another regular income would be great.
I reached out to a few close connections and was able to pick up a few clients that would allow me to work from home on web sites and social media. They aren’t high paying clients, but they are people I want to help and it will help add to my resume. Even when I get a new job, these are clients I’ll be able to maintain on the side.
I had friends give me advice. Conflicting advice.
Wait 3-6 months, find a large church, and blend in with the crowd.
Get plugged in right away, serving during the time you’re not working can be like therapy.
I love my friends. They don’t always agree with one another.
Last weekend, starting with Sunday’s sermon, God worked in some incredible ways. From places we went, people we talked to, and a host of other things. The perfect job came across my way. If I had sat down and written out everything I was looking for in a job and employer, this would be it.
This week I’ve had to talk to the kids and ask: is it too soon for me to go back to work? Have we learned what God is trying to teach us? Basically, “are y’all good with this?”
Confirmation came from Alan. He’s on board with this. The kids are all okay with it, too.
Full steam ahead. We hope.
Please pray with our family, that if this job is God’s will, the details will work out and everything will fall in to place. If it’s not God’s will, we will accept that move on, but so far, things are on track!